I always hated to get an invitation to a party or a wedding.  It wasn't that I didn't want to go it was that I knew that I'd have a very hard time find flattering plus size formal wear styles.  I was a young woman and all that was available to me were shapeless sacks.  Not anymore.  Today there are many different plus size formal wear designers who know what it takes to make a plus size woman feel good about herself.  When you feel good about yourself you exude self confidence and sex appeal.  I have large beautiful curves and am finally able to show them off and feel good about them.